EVER UPWARD: Owning My Childfree Life in Our Child Obsessed World

by Justine Brooks Froelker, LPC

“Why don’t you just adopt?”

The ever present, innocent, and well meaning question everyone asks when they learn of my motherhood status and how I got here. Yet, to those of us 1 in 8 couples who undergo infertility treatments, this question does not feel at all innocent or well meaning. It not only feels invalidating to the battle we’ve just been through, but it minimizes the difficulty and pain involved in the adoption process.

Ever Upward is a surprising story of triumph over terrible luck. As a professional therapist and survivor, really thriver, of the infertility journey, this is the story of how I have redefined my childless life into a full and happy childfree life. Ever Upward fills the current gap on the infertility bookshelf. It is also the voice for those who have been silenced by the battle of infertility. Ever Upward is my story. The story of how I learned to be okay, whole and happy, even when life just didn’t turn out how I had hoped. Ever Upward is also a story that resonates with that of many; a story of pain, triumph and acceptance. Finally, Ever Upward opens the conversation to the other side of infertility, the side asking for understanding and acceptance of the path that sadly doesn’t include children.

Ever Upward is Justine’s story, and yet it is every woman’s story; mother or not, because behind the wall of silence, shame, the smile, and the ‘I can do everything’ attitude lies millions of women suffering in silence with the pain of infertility. And yet our connection to our stories is the only way back to the truth of who we are, to own ourselves again.

Today’s post is inspired by the WordPress Daily Prompt: Write the blurb for the book jacket of the book you’d write, if only you had the time and inclination.

* Ever Upward: Owning My Childfree Life in Our Child Obsessed World will be published with Morgan James Publishing in the Fall of 2014.*

27 thoughts on “The Almost Finished, Yet Unpublished, Ever Upward

  1. LaGuagui says:

    I don’t have kids nor do I want them any time soon but damn this book looks interesting enough to read!

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    1. jlbf4 says:

      Thank you! You have no idea how amazing that is to hear! Been submitting to publishers and agents for months now, persistence will pay! 😉 And if not, I’ll eventually self publish. Thank you for reading!

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      1. LaGuagui says:

        Keep submitting. Don’t give up. Not only is this worth publishing/reading but your persistance will get there. Don’t back down now.

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  3. loribeth says:

    I would totally read this book. 🙂

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    1. jlbf4 says:

      Thank you so much!

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