They turned up the lights after one song. We usually sing four amazing rock band like songs which is one of the many reasons I love our church. Then I remembered seeing the reserved seats walking in, “Reserved for families of children dedication”. Shit. Oh, shit. Today is the children’s dedication at church. Okay, I …

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Forgiveness is a common theme in my office. Forgiveness of ourselves. And, forgiveness of our loved ones. Much like the art of letting go, forgiveness can be one of life’s trickiest bitches. We must learn to forgive I believe the people hurting the most on this earth are the ones who are holding onto to …

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Through fear. Through judgment. To own it all. But how? In Through Fear and Judgment To Own It All, I Dare You I wrote about how the ownership of my story, of all of our stories, is done not without major fear and not without facing judgment. And, how we must still fight for it, …

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It was a weekend of life’s brilliant dichotomy for me; the complicated grey. The bad with the good. The dark with the light. The thorn with the beauty. I’m not sure sure any woman enjoys their yearly exam at the OB/GYN but Friday was my day. The bad, the dark, the thorn I spent an hour …

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Amy Klein‘s post You’ve Done Everything You Can for the New York Times was the first spark I needed to write something about our enoughs. Our everythings. Then I wrote Our Infertility Rap Sheets, even though I was scared to death of putting it out there. But, the feedback I received was the second spark I …

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